If you don’t believe a startup can be the next Stripe, then you definitely shouldn’t take 1% and work as one of the first employees.
Also, the risk profile and expectations are vastly different between founders and first employees. E.g. founders are expected to not quit unless the company collapses completely, first employees can quit whenever they wish. Also, if the runway is short, founders work for free and can even go into debt, whereas employees have a stable salary.
Outside US but I never regret getting equity/options and usually it went hand in hand with the higher paying jobs (paltry compared to US standards!) rather than being a salary/equity tradeoff. Atlassian is a great example though I have not worked for them.
I think companies here tend to have less fuck you over terms in employment share schemes but OTOH are less likely to get rich but one company made several employees rich (does 8 figures count?) here.
Also, the risk profile and expectations are vastly different between founders and first employees. E.g. founders are expected to not quit unless the company collapses completely, first employees can quit whenever they wish. Also, if the runway is short, founders work for free and can even go into debt, whereas employees have a stable salary.