to correct your error: nontechnical skills like marketing, grit, forgiveness, and negotiation are far more critical to business success than any technical skill
you are the third person here to incorrectly attribute to me an undervaluing of non-tech skills, but that's on you three, not me; you're just pattern-matching what i said to some kind of stereotype and guessing what kinds of opinions i might hold on questions i haven't talked about. it's as if i had advocated abortion rights and you attacked me for advocating gun control
but i'm not in favor of gun control, and i value non-tech skills very highly. you guessed wrong, and you should be ashamed of yourself for falling into fox-news-style stereotype-based reasoning instead of thinking about what i actually said
the particular communication skill i need in this case is the skill to avoid communicating with people who will ignore what i actually said and substitute something they would prefer to argue with
Wow - that's an irrelevant tangent. HN guidelines are to avoid flamebait and politics.
> why would you want a nontechnical cofounder to do the pm/marketing/bizdev side of things?
This is what my comment relates to. It seems to me that you are dismissing the potential value of a non-tech co-founder. A co-founder is not telling the dev what to do. Partners whos skills complement each other. I helped co-found a successful business with 4 founders: 1 sales, 1 BA, and 2 dev - although we were all tech types with far wider skills than the stereotypes of the labels I used suggest.
To be clear: some people don't need a non-tech co-founder, but I have seen devs try to start businesses where I felt the devs would have done better partnering up with non-dev co-founders. Also if one can't sell a business to a high-value co-founder, then my guess is one likely lacks the skills to be successful.
> case is the skill to avoid communicating with people who will ignore what i actually said and substitute something they would prefer to argue with
I am replying because I felt you ignored what I said, and you substituted something you preferred to argue with.
I'm not trying to change your mind - I'm just trying to explain how your comments come across to me - it is about me not you. I'm not trolling to make you angry - HN is not for that and why waste your time or mine. All good.
you guessed how highly i valued non-technical skills, based on literally zero information. i explained how highly i actually value non-technical skills, which is utterly contrary to your guess. you maintain you 'made no error', which i suppose means that you believe your initial baseless guess was correct, and i'm either mistaken or lying about my own beliefs
and somehow you think i'm the condescending and rude one?
my initial comment didn't even say how highly i value technical skills; it only said that the sign of the value i assign to technical skills is positive rather than negative—in the context of looking for a cofounder (as opposed to certain other contexts, such as finding user testing subjects, where the sign might be negative)
i explained that, by answering my comment in the way you did, you are engaging in the same kind of flamebait and politics that kills rational discussion around topics like abortion rights and gun control. (please stop doing that and respond to what i actually wrote.)
in response, you're implicitly claiming that i'm the one who's bringing in the flamebait and politics?
i don't know what you expect to achieve with this kind of darvo bullshit
no reasonable person could claim that when i say 'nontechnical skills like marketing, grit, forgiveness, and negotiation are far more critical to business success than any technical skill' i am 'dismissing the potential value of a non-tech co-founder'
but you did make that claim
what i'm dismissing, as i've explained at exhaustive and exhausting length, is the idea that they're valuable because of their lack of technical skills, rather than despite it (and because of their other skills, which, as i explained repeatedly, are even more crucial to business success)
my single comment at https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=38479157 got flagged, i think, for being extremely rude, not for failing to communicate
you are the third person here to incorrectly attribute to me an undervaluing of non-tech skills, but that's on you three, not me; you're just pattern-matching what i said to some kind of stereotype and guessing what kinds of opinions i might hold on questions i haven't talked about. it's as if i had advocated abortion rights and you attacked me for advocating gun control
but i'm not in favor of gun control, and i value non-tech skills very highly. you guessed wrong, and you should be ashamed of yourself for falling into fox-news-style stereotype-based reasoning instead of thinking about what i actually said
the particular communication skill i need in this case is the skill to avoid communicating with people who will ignore what i actually said and substitute something they would prefer to argue with