The top two might be good examples, but the YouTube link says the kid was punching a teacher, which is a good example of what I meant by punting that to someone with better legal resources than me (if I am a worker at the school).
That is a systemic problem regarding tort and liability, I would not blame individuals at the school or police for that. The solution would have to be systemic reform.
https://www.nytimes.com/2020/02/27/us/orlando-6-year-old-arr...
https://www.cbsnews.com/news/maryland-police-5-year-old-boy-...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cEDTPxpjDhk